Becoming isn't changing who you are, it's about remembering what you were built for.
I grew up in East Oakland, where you learn to read a room before you learn to read a book. Noise teaches focus. Pressure teaches calm. And when no one explains anything, you learn to show up without needing a speech.
My story isn’t polished. At one point I learned my father was unknown, and the name I carried might not even be my blood name. Truth like that can crack a kid. It can also build something most people never learn: how to hold center, breathe through chaos, and decide who you’re going to become.
Life handed me conversations about loyalty, honesty, and love long before I was ready. I chose honesty over comfort. I lived with the cost, and I kept going.
The Marine Corps sharpened that edge. I learned calm under pressure coaching marksmanship, leading in supply ops, deploying with the 31st MEU. I earned a leadership role early and was known as a results-based problem solver. The Corps taught me: breathe first, trust checklists, finish what you start.
After the military, I kept building in high-pressure environments writing SOPs, leading teams, bridging people from every walk of life. I learned to read rooms, stay present, and help people shift into who they needed to become.
Now I coach capability, strength you can carry anywhere: under a bar, in a meeting, beside a crib, or through a storm you didn’t ask for. Because becoming isn’t about motivation. It’s about identity, discipline, and the quiet strength to return to yourself.
If you’re here, you already feel that pull the part of you that knows you’re built for more, done settling, and ready for a life that matches the weight you can carry. I’ll meet you where you are and we’ll finish what you start.
Begin your becoming.